When was the last time you invited friends to stay for a night?
If you don’t remember, it means that it was probably too long ago. More often than not, friends and relatives meet for a meal or an afternoon tea in town. While this habit helps to keep in touch — besides it can be entertaining to spend an afternoon in town — it doesn’t provide the social environment necessary to develop your bond. Indeed, in a restaurant or coffee shop, you know that your time around the table is limited. Once you’ve consumed your meal or drink, the group separates, and each drives back home. As Britons spend between one and two hours in restaurants, the benefit of face-to-face conversations is almost non-existent. Most people today talk longer on the phone or via social media. Unfortunately, humans are social creatures who build connections through face-to-face discussions. In other words, the more you see your friends for a coffee in town, the less you get to know each other. It’s time to rediscover the pleasure of inviting people to spend a night at your home.