Elowen’s 8 month update

Elowen’s 8 month update

I’m a few (OK, five) days late with this update but there was no way I could let the last month pass by without mention because unlike last month, there has been lots of milestones for my little lady. We’ll start with those…

Milestones:

She can sit up independently…

This happened a day or so after I wrote E’s last update. It goes to show how remarkable babies are. One day she couldn’t sit up for more than a few seconds before falling over, and the next she could sit up with ease, like it ain’t no thing!

She can crawl… in her own special way…

OK, it’s more of a dragging method than a out and out crawl. But let’s not nitpick, the girl can get around and pretty speedily too. Watch out, Jasmine – you’re toys aren’t safe anymore! Or anything else for that matter.

She has more teeth…

Not 1, or 2 but 4 more teeth popped through in the last week or so making that a grand total of 6 toothypegs! We had a couple of rough nights of teething leading up to the new teeth making an appearance but she’s been relatively unbothered by them other than that. (Spell check tells me that ‘unbothered’ isn’t a word but I’m using it anyway!)

She’s moved into her big girl cot! Waaah.

With the ability to sit up and new found mobility it was time to say farewell to the Chicco Next to Me crib (I put it in the loft before Stephen made me sell it – I’m so not ready for that!) E now sleeps in a bigger cot, but still in our room with us. I plan to keep her in with us until she’s at least a year old.

Weekends away…

As I’m still exclusively breastfeeding E, if I go away for the weekend, she has to come with me so she’s been away to Wales and Cornwall in the last month. She was a complete joy to travel with and she did so well with the car journeys.

Feeding:

Not much to say on feeding really other than she’s still very much enjoying new foods. We’ve introduced more meat to her diet over the last couple of weeks instead of just fruit and vegetables. Cottage pie and Moroccan chicken are faves!

Sleeping:

E seems to have settled into a bit more of a routine this month.

Our usual day goes as follows:

6am: Woken up by Jasmine

8/9am: Breakfast – cereal, porridge or puree

10am: Breastfeed followed by the longest and sometimes only nap of the day!

12/1pm: Lunch followed by another breastfeed – sometimes another short nap (especially if she’s in the pushchair when I pick Jasmine up from nursery)

3pm: Breastfeed

4/5pm: Dinner

6pm: Breastfeed and bed

9pm: Wakes up for a ‘top up’ feed – it’s spooky how often she’ll wake at 9 on the dot!

10/11pm: I’ll dream feed her when I get into bed and then put her back into the cot

3am: feed (ugh!)

5am: Sometimes another feed, other times she won’t wake up again until Jasmine comes into our room at 6ish.

Likes: Eating grass, crawling, watching her sister, paper, tickles and kisses, going on the swings.

Dislikes: Being put in her carseat – she’s usually fine once she’s in it but always grumbles when we first strap her in.

 

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Elowen’s 7 month update

Elowen’s 7 month update

Happy 7 months, my baby girl.

Here’s what’s new this month…

Milestones:

It’s been a quieter month in terms of milestones (although I’m sure there’s plenty I’m forgetting).

E is definitely more mobile and whilst she’s not crawling (yet!) she can move across a room very quickly when she wants to, using a combination of rolling, planking and stretching. She’s like a wee wiggly worm!

She spends a lot of time lifting her body up onto all fours and ‘planking’. She rocks side to side and back and forth and she is oh so close to crawling. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s crawling before the end of the month.

She still can’t sit up independently (for more than 10 seconds without falling over)! I think she’ll be crawling before she’s sitting! It doesn’t seem to be a problem though. She has very strong neck muscles and head control so she’s happy enough when she’s sitting in her snug, highchair and pushchair. (Which reminds me, we ditched the carrycot this month).

There hasn’t been anymore teeth so she still just has her bottom two.

Feeding:

Weaning is going really well and she’s now been enjoying solid food for a month. We’re still taking it pretty relaxed. She generally joins in with us for two meals a day with some snacks in between. In an ideal world I’d love to full on BLW but I don’t always have time to clear up the mess during the day, especially if we’re heading out to a toddler group.  This means E has a mixture of purees and finger food. She’s very easy-going when it comes to food and happy either way. :)

Her fave foods so far have been: broccoli, mushed banana on toast, strawberries, loaded potato skins and cucumber slices!

I’m still breastfeeding on demand – almost constantly at the moment (Thank you, heatwave!)

Sleep:

E does not like going to sleep, ever. I’ve spent many an evening lately pushing her around the block in her pushchair (sometimes for well over an hour) to get her to sleep! She naps during the day – maybe 2 or 3 times – but again, she usually has to be in the pushchair. She get very overtired and screams a lot. This girl has some serious FOMO issues!

Moving on…

Size and weight: 

I still haven’t had her weighed. Not enough hours in the day! But she’s definitely getting chunkier.

She’s in size 3 nappies and 6-9 month clothes.

Likes: Playing with her feet, cuddles and kisses from her big sister, Moosey, shouting, food, baths, belly tickles.

Dislikes: going to sleep, having her nappy changed.

I’m right in the middle of packing for a weekend away in Wales with my friends (a belated 30th birthday trip) and as E is still being breastfed she’s tagging along with us. Her first weekend away with the girls! :D I’ll let you know how it goes in her next update.

Jenna xxx

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Elowen’s 5 & 6 month update

Elowen’s 5 & 6 month update

Eek, I feel terrible – I haven’t blogged for two whole months. Two months?! I think that’s the longest time I’ve gone without blogging since I started 3 years ago. We moved back to Bristol last month and things have been kinda crazy since then (the good kind of crazy, I hasten to add). I keep meaning to write a ‘Life Lately’ post to catch up on everything but finding the time is a struggle right now.

But forget all that, because today, today my baby is 6. months. old. HALF A YEAR, people!! How the flip did that happen? I missed her 5 month update (Sorry, E!) so I’ll do a bit of a combined update about the last two months.

Milestones:  

We have toothy pegs –

A week before E turned 5 months old, her bottom two peggies both appeared within the space of about 48 hours! She’s dribbling and gnawing like crazy at the moment so I wouldn’t be surprised if a couple more make an appearance very soon!

They see her rollin’… –

E started to roll at around 5 months (from her back to front) – but now she can roll back to front or front to back. In fact, she can travel quite an impressive distance by doing so! One minute she’s laying on her playmat, the next she’s grinding up against the wall at the far side of the room. She’s desperate to move forward but any attempt at crawling results in a skydiving impression at the moment. No crawling for a while, please!

Ommm…. –

We’ve recently started going to mummy and me yoga classes and it’s lovely. I haven’t really bothered with baby groups this time as our days revolve around a certain big sister. BUT now that Jasmine’s at pre-school two mornings a week, I thought it would be nice for us to do something a bit more mummy and baby focused. It’s mostly an opportunity for me to have a good stretch (and do some much needed pelvic floor exercises, heh) whilst E makes eyes at a gorgeous baby boy called Tobias.

Making a splash –

Last week we took E swimming for the first time. She looked SO cute in her little polkadot swimming costume. She took to the pool really well (it helped that it was a lovely warm pool) and we were in there for a good half an hour or so! I can’t wait to go again soon.

Grub’s up… –

We’ve started our baby-led-weaning journey this week and so far (aside from the mess) it’s been really good fun. E has been staring daggers at us every meal time for the last month or so. She’s very happy to finally be joining in with the family meal times and it’s fair to say she is LOVING solid foods. So far she’s tried, amongst other things, banana pancakes, shreddies, broccoli, kale and cheese muffins and various berries. I can confirm that she has even digested some of that, too. Ahem….

I’ve dug out my cookbooks and I’m planning to batch cook lots of yummy baby bites over the weekend.

Weight:

No idea. I haven’t managed to find out where the baby weigh-in clinics are yet. E is still in size 3 nappies. She has also outgrown most of her 3-6 month clothes. This week I dug out all of J’s old 6-9 month clothes and washed them ready for E to use. It’s still surreal to see her in Jasmine’s old babygrows.

Feeding:

As I already mentioned we’re now weaning onto solids. As far as milk goes, I’m still breastfeeding on demand. She doesn’t really have much of a schedule but I guess she feeds every 4 hours or so during the day. She will have 1-2 feeds during the night.

Sleeping: 

E will nap 3 or 4 times throughout the day, again, there’s no real routine as yet. If we’re out and about then she tends to fall asleep in the puschair, if we’re at home she may just stay awake (due to the very loud 3-year-old). She tends to fall asleep around 7/7.30pm, having a real fussy period before doing so and fighting sleep. She’ll then wake around 10pm for a feed and go back to sleep until 3am for a feed. Then it’s back to sleep until the morning, when I get rudely awoken around 6.30/7am by either being batted around the head or having my hair pulled. Such a cheeky monkey.

Likes: Being tickled, her big sister’s singing, walks in the buggy, food, swimming, pulling mama’s hair,tummy time, baby yoga!

Dislikes: teething, missing out on food and going to sleep.

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Elowen’s 4 month update

Elowen’s 4 month update

General:

My little Smoosh is a pretty happy and content little thing most of the time. Despite the fact she is currently going through the dreaded 4th leap *gulp*, aside from a few fussy evenings, she’s been pretty chilled out.

She always falls asleep if she’s in the pram and it’s the best way to get her to nap if she’s fighting sleep. If she’s not snoozing when out for our walks, she looks up at me from the carrycot and gives me beaming smiles.

She’s fascinated by her big sister and stares at Jasmine intently whenever she’s in the room.

She’s also ‘found her voice’ this month. Holy moly, that girl can shriek.

As well as finding her voice, she’s also found her thumb – she’s a thumb-sucker!

She had her third set of jabs this morning – they are never much fun and I hate hearing her cry. Luckily, I was able to get a smile out of her a few minutes afterwards. At least that’s them done and dusted for a while!

Weight: 

I last took Elowen to be weighed on the 8th March (15 weeks +3 days old) and she weighed 13lbs 13oz. The health worker pointed out that E had dropped percentiles on her chart. I came home feeling really negative and a bit like I was failing her. I did a bit of research online and found out that those charts are based on formula fed babies. The Health worker didn’t even bother to ask me how I was feeding Elowen! Anyway, I’m less bothered about it now – E is healthy, gaining weight and outgrowing her clothes. I think she’s doing just fine. (Here’s one of the articles I read about the difference in weight gain in BF and FF babies.)

E is in size 3 nappies and 3-6 month clothes.

Milestones: 

I said in Elowen’s 3 month update that she had giggled… once! Well, it took a couple more weeks since that happened but now she giggles lots. Especially if I tickle her or kiss her neck. She has the cheekiest little laugh ever. I am in love with it!

I also mentioned that I thought her bottom teeth were coming through. They haven’t yet but they’re certainly making progress. She’s had some awful teething episodes over the last few weeks. As she was still so young I was limited as to what I could give her. My friend Daisy suggested trying some breast milk ice lollies to help take away the teething pain and they were a massive hit.

Elowen can now grasp at her toys and quite enjoys short periods of time laying on her playmat. She will grab the toys that hang down over her and will either shake them or try to put them in her mouth.

Feeding: 

Despite my ‘wobble’ last month, I’m still exclusively breastfeeding Elowen. I’ve pretty much decided that I’m not going to introduce a bottle or formula for the time being. I could be cutting off my nose in spite of my face but I just cannot be bothered with expressing and sterilising bottles. I’m not even sure if E would take to a bottle now anyway, I suspect probably not.

Sleeping:

Sleep? What even is that? I’m not sure if Elowen is having a growth spurt or sleep regression but it feels like she is up every couple of hours for a feed at the moment. It is slaying me! I’ve been going to bed about 9pm most nights just so I’m not a complete zombie the next day. She will have several naps throughout the day, her longest one seems to be in the late morning.

She still ends up in our bed most nights but that’s usually because I end up falling asleep whilst feeding her more than a conscious decision to have her in bed with us.

I wrote a post earlier this month comparing the differences between Jasmine and Elowen’s bedtime routines – it’s here if you fancy a read.

Likes: Booby milk ice lollies, Lamaze Mortimer Moose (a Jasmine hand-me-down), mummy blowing raspberries, bathtime, watching her big sister.

Dislikes: teething pain and immunisation jabs!

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Bedtime Routines: The First Baby Vs. The Second Baby

Bedtime Routines: The First Baby Vs. The Second Baby

I was recently chatting to some of my mummy friends about the bedtime routines we have in place for our babies. This particular group of friends (mostly) consists of first-time-mamas. There was talk of nightly baths and baby massages and it was then that I had a sudden pang of guilt. I realised that I don’t put half as much effort into E’s bedtime routine as I did with J’s when she was the same age. I thought it would be interesting to compare the two different bedtime routines that I had/have for my first and second child (at around the same age) and to see if they slept any differently because of them. Read on to find out…

The first baby’s bedtime routine:

Jasmine was doing 5-6 hour long stints of sleeping at night by 9 weeks old and it was around this time that I decided I would implement a ‘proper bedtime routine‘ which went as follows…

Bath:

Every. Single. Day.

Heaven forbid we missed her evening bath.

Baby Massage:

After her bath, Jasmine was then treated to a full body massage – she’d be smothered head to toe in baby oil whilst I used the techniques I’d learned at our baby massage classes.

Bottle:

Her massage was followed by a feed. Jasmine was fully formula fed from around 6 weeks old. At 9 weeks old she’d have 4-5oz of milk at each feed.

Bed:

Jasmine would often fall asleep whilst having her last bottle before bed. I’d then gently slip her into her bedside crib. If she was still awake at the end of the feed, I’d pop her into the Bednest and turn on her ‘Freddie the frog’ Slumber Buddy (she still uses this now sometimes). She’d then eventually settle down to sleep.

4am: Jasmine wakes for a feed. She guzzles down her milk and then falls back to sleep.

6.30am: Jasmine wake ups and is ready to start the day!

Bedtime Routines: The First Baby Vs. The Second Baby

I blogged a 7-day diary when I introduced this bedtime routine – if you want to read it, you can find it here.

The Second Baby’s Bedtime Routine (or lack thereof):

Bath? (Ha!)

I give Elowen a bath about once a fortnight with ‘top and tail’ washes in between to keep her fresh.

Baby Massage? (Double ha!)

Sorry, baby girl – but I’ve spent the best part of the evening fighting with your sister to get her PJs on and brush her damn teeth. She’s finally down for the night so I just wanna chill. Is that cool with you? Cool.

The Dinner Time Feed: Elowen will demand a feed as soon as my dinner is ready (around 6.30/7.00pm). I stick her on the boob and watch my dinner go cold. I then pop E into her NUNA Leaf chair and crank that bad boy up to maximum sway. She might fight sleep for a little while but then gradually drifts off (usually whilst sucking her thumb). That’s her out for the count until I go to bed myself. I veg out in front of the telly or catch up with some blogging.

Bedtime: 

I tend to go to bed anywhere between 10pm and 11.30pm. I grab Elowen out of her chair and take her up to bed with me. This usually wakes her up so I take the opportunity to put a fresh nappy on her and change her clothes ready for bed. I boob her back to sleep again and then pop her in the Chicco Next-to-me crib. She’s still using her Purflo Nest but has almost outgrown it – this saddens me greatly.

Bedtime Routines: The First Baby Vs. The Second Baby

4am: Night feed. I usually end up latching her on and falling back to sleep.

6/6.30am: I wake up (usually by my toddler alarm clock) with Elowen still cuddled up in my arms from the 4am feed.

Time to get up!

Conclusion:

It wasn’t until I read this post back that I realised how similar Elowen’s sleep pattern is to what Jasmine’s was at around the same age. And that’s despite Elowen forgoing nightly baths and baby massages (poor, poor second child). I’ve definitely been more relaxed about bed-sharing this time around (although, I still follow the safety guidelines). I would have Jasmine sleep in bed with us during the fourth trimester when she was still adjusting to being ‘earthside’. And to be honest, it scared me, but sometimes it was the only way we got any sleep. Elowen on the other hand, is almost 4 months old, and I’m happy to bring her into our bed. I’m breastfeeding this time around so I find I can get a bit more extra sleep whilst she feeds.

You can tell from reading these bedtime routines that we very much dedicated our evenings to Jasmine’s bedtime routine. It’s clearly true (in our case at least) that the second baby has to fit around us as a family, and not the other way around. So yeah, the littlest lady of the family might miss out on nightly baths (she has majorly dry skin anyways) and doesn’t get those full body massages (I feel a bit guilty about that) but ultimately, it’s made no difference. They sleep exactly the same!

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If you fancy reading more posts about baby sleep routines and co-sleeping, check out these posts by some of my fellow mama blogger friends: Lucie // Kirsty // Georgina // Rachel // Rebecca

I’d love to know how bedtime works in your house if you have more than one child?
Or if you just have the one, what does their bedtime routine involve?
How do you feel about co-sleeping?

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