Oh my goodness, it seems like such a long time since I did a ‘catch up’ kind of post on this here blog of mine. Even though I’ve massively stepped back from blogging (due to lack of time, mainly), this evening I’ve had the writing itch. In years to come, when I sit down and look through my blog, I’ll wonder what the heck I was up to during the massive gap between my posts. It’s also quite nice to have a bit of ‘brain dump’ every now and again, isn’t it?
So in no particular order, here’s what been happening in my life lately…
Elowen turned one:
My littlest lady celebrated her first birthday last month and it’s felt like the fastest year of my life. I did a cake smash photoshoot in our back garden which was a bit of a disaster, to be honest. The wind kept blowing my decorations down, it started to rain and Elowen was more interested in throwing her cake on the floor for the dog to eat. Now I know why people pay a lot of money for cake smash photo shoot sessions with a professional photographer! ;)
Shortly after her first birthday, E began taking her first wobbly independent steps. And now, just a few weeks later, she’s a bonafide toddler, stomping around all over the place.
E’s determination to grow up at a million miles an hour has left me feeling ridiculously broody. I keep thinking I want another baby (or 10?) but I’m sure the feeling will pass!
Settling into our new home/town:
We’ve been in our new house for over six months and I feel like we’re relatively settled here now and we’ve adapted to the changes – Stephen working from home, Jasmine going to a new preschool, etc. etc.
Stephen working from home is tricky at times – especially as he often spends a lot of the time on conference calls with clients – as you can imagine, a one year old and 3.5 year old make a LOT of noise. In the summer I would just take the kids out to the park when Stephen was on calls which made life easier. I still try to get us out of the house as much as possible but it’s much harder in the winter when the weather is bad.
I’ve found people here, other mums particularly, a lot friendlier. People weren’t unfriendly in Suffolk but those who lived in our old town had usually been born and bred there and were less fussed about making friends outside of their family/social circle. People didn’t really talk to each other. It’s different here. Whether I go to the park, playgroup or soft play, there’s always someone willing to have a chat – it’s made my life a lot less lonely.
We have a massive list of things that need doing to the house, a lot of which require a fair amount of time and money. It feels a bit overwhelming sometimes but I try to remember that we’re planning to live here for 10 years or so (at least whilst the girls are at primary school) so there’s plenty of time for us to get things done.
Our most recent project was the living room. The decor that we inherited when we moved in was not our style at all but because it was only cosmetic, it got put on the backburner. Until we got so fed up with the ugly wallpaper, we started tearing it off one evening! We repainted the walls, added photos and art to the walls, we (ahem, I) went a bit mad with fairy lights (I’m obsessed with fairy lights) and got a new dining table and chairs. It’s now one of my favourite rooms in the house. It still needs a few finishing touches but I’m really chuffed with how it’s turned out.
School application made:
Our primary school application for Jasmine has been made and I can hardly believe my big kid is starting school next September. *sob* We’re very lucky in that we’ve several ‘good’ primary schools in our catchment area so it was a case of visiting them and deciding which one we felt would be best suited for Jasmine. There were things we liked about all of the schools we visited and I’ve no worries about any of them but we do have our heart set on one in particular. Fingers crossed J gets a place there. :)
Back to education:
In my last ‘life lately’ post, I talked about wanting to change careers and become a Doula. Well, I’m pleased to say that I start my NCT access course in January which is my first step on the ladder. It’s a 6 month course which will help me not only get back into education but also let me dip my toe in the water and decide if I want to continue on this career journey before making the big commitment of doing another degree.
Last month I met my tutors and fellow course mates at an ‘expression of interest day’ and I am SO excited to get started in the New Year. I am eager to learn and get stuck into something that’s just for me.
Looking forward to Christmas:
We are in full Christmas mode here and we’re loving the build up towards the holidays. I’ve already watched The Grinch (my fave festive movie) and cracked open the Baileys! ;) We’re having Christmas at home this year, with Stephen’s mum coming to visit, so it should be a relatively chilled one. That said, I’ve still got lots to do over the next week and a bit.
Jasmine wrote to Santa and asked for sparkly blue shoes like Elsa’s. They’re sorted (thank goodness for eBay). And I’ve ordered her main gift – a beautiful pink retro-style bike. I cannot wait to see her little face on Christmas day!
As for E, she’s a little trickier when it comes to gifts – she’s just had a birthday and doesn’t want/need anything if I’m honest. Let’s face it, she’s one, she’ll be happy enough playing with wrapping paper and cardboard boxes so I’m not going to sweat it on that one.
And on that note…
Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a fantastic 2018!